i help passion-powered small + scaling business owners stop second-guessing the wisdom in what lights them up so they can leverage it to grow sustainably, in ways the FEEL good + DO good! 🚀explore the power of intuition-driven decisionmaking in your life + biz with my weekly-ish newsletter
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i love a good dead flower 🥀
Published 7 months ago • 3 min read
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hey, maple muffin.
i really do
of course i can’t get enough of a flower in the peak of its fragrant, vibrant prime
that’s easy to love, right?
and there’s plenty of love for properly dried flowers out there…
but wow, do i love a dead + dying bloom, too
i keep cut flowers in vases longer than most, and i love to check in on their quiet little death march each day —
gathering crunchy fallen petals, noticing the way time drains some of color but intensifies that of others
poking a bit to see what’s ready to release, what’s still hanging strong
last week i was struck by the way some blooms that i thought would shed weren’t budging a bit, while others came completely undone in an instant
and isn’t that how it is, though?
when you’re really going through it, you hold ONNNN, bloom
even when you could’ve stood to be taken better care of + could stand it still now
even when, by all outward appearances, you SHOULD be falling apart…
somehow you keep it together
and then, apropos of nothing, a gentle caress or a curious inquiry leaves you wrecked
because there isn’t always logic to how we handle the messy moments we live in
and weariness weighing over time at some point must compound
i managed to grab an inelegant video of those flowers, and i was struck by how the strong friend had been surreptitiously shielding the tender one
how the garden you grow into matters
this is reciprocity that doesn’t keep score
it’s synergistic care —
built on faith that we can love ourselves + each other at once,
trust in the “flowers” we choose to grow with,
and the wisdom to hold space for the intricacies of our experiences, together
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something that’s meant to nurture + nourish you as a passion-powered, mission-motivated magicmaker in your life + biz…
i invite you to attend a free sample session of my UPRISING inner sanctum community
it’s happening wednesday april 8 at 12pm ET / 9am PT
ps: i found not one but TWO faces in one of the flowers featured… let me know if you do, too! (scroll down for close ups!)
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i help passion-powered small + scaling business owners stop second-guessing the wisdom in what lights them up so they can leverage it to grow sustainably, in ways the FEEL good + DO good! 🚀explore the power of intuition-driven decisionmaking in your life + biz with my weekly-ish newsletter
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