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is how you do anything really how you do everything?
Published 6 months ago • 3 min read
hey, lemon pie.
how you do anything is how you do everything…
i’ve never been a fan of the phrase
coaches trying to establish themselves as the expert love to throw it about as a way of telling you — when you don’t follow THEIR rules around discipline, consistency + success — that you need to get your shit together
that the problem is you
that you’d meet with the success you yearn for if you’d just ignore your nature + do what they tell you to do
(because they know best, obvi)
and if you sneeze, you might not even realize that they’ve become one more voice telling you how “not enough” you are
and not just in x y or z way…
but across all the things — how FUNDAMENTALLY not enough you are
(to them. until you pay them to fix you, natch)
and because you’ve been raised in this culture of everyone else knows better than you, it probably looks like wisdom + sounds like truth
this supposed tough love expertise kickstarts the ages-old negative selftalk in your head
the voices of your mother sister teacher tabloid rival lost lover or some other…
melding with the voice you’ve claimed as your own that’s really just sharp loud echoes of theirs
the voice that’s lost connection to the much more wise + true source of something more within you
but it’s still there, bloom
and it’s aching for you to speak it like a sonnet + a song —
to let yourself trust yourself at least as much as everyone else
to dare to believe that you CAN have it all
that it’s not naïve to want to live a life + grow a business that honors the brilliant, unique starburst that you are
and how you do anything is how you do everything, love
you do how you do with such magic + wonder, such utter delight
even in the face of the absurd, the aching, the atrocious, the audaciously oaken
the way you show up in this life, as who you fundamentally, unapologetically are —
the way you stand on business for what you value most
the way you’ll be damned if you let anyone try to tell you that joy belongs on weekends + holidays and work is meant to be soddenly slogged through
this is what you’re here for
this is why you’ve chosen paths others fear
you aren’t like everyone else
you get to organize your day how you wish
and if you’ve forgotten how this feels in your bones…
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i help passion-powered small + scaling business owners stop second-guessing the wisdom in what lights them up so they can leverage it to grow sustainably, in ways the FEEL good + DO good! 🚀explore the power of intuition-driven decisionmaking in your life + biz with my weekly-ish newsletter
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